If you’ve ever wondered how some women seem to be able to do it all and have it all, you’ve come to the right place.

The first thing to know is that that there’s no such thing as a Super Mom, and that women who appear to have it all, don’t. What they do have is a life that works well for them. And you can too.

Successful mom entrepreneurs all have a few key characteristics:

"Confidence or at least a willingness to take a risk"* Confidence, or at least a willingness to take a risk. Everyone, even the most seemingly perfect person has insecurities. The difference between successful mom entrepreneurs and others is they have the ability to take a risk. This takes both a high level of confidence and the ability to push past any insecurities and surge forward to achieve what they want.

* Resilience, which means a positive attitude and the ability to adapt (because what are you going to do when your youngest gets sick on the day of a big teleconference?). Successful mom entrepreneurs are great at bouncing back from mistakes and setbacks and they’re able to make changes and adapt on the fly. This is an essential skill for success, because life is full of surprises and being able to adapt quickly makes everything much easier.

* A positive attitude and the ability to see the silver lining. A positive attitude is essential for being a successful mom entrepreneur. It not only helps you stay focused on your goals, it also gets you through the tough times. We just talked about being confident and resilient; in order to be both of those things a positive attitude is a must.

* Motivated to achieve and own, run, and grow your own business. Motivation is hard to come by sometimes. Children, household chores and daily life can all sap our energy and make it tough to be motivated. However, successful mom entrepreneurs are excited about life, excited about their goals and manage to hold onto their motivation even on the toughest of days.

"Motivated to achieve and own run and grow your own business"

* A healthy approach to life. Live in the moment – work hard and play hard. Above and beyond it all, in order to be a successful mom entrepreneur you need to have a healthy approach to life. That means paying attention to yourself and knowing when you need to take a break. It means making time for fun and being able to be in the moment no matter what you’re doing. A successful mom entrepreneur knows that the road to success is paved with hard work, but a few fun detours make the trip worthwhile.

It’s all about balance, having a vision and being able to plan how you’re going to achieve your vision. Every woman can live the life they desire and be a successful mom entrepreneur. Cultivate that positive attitude, make time for yourself, be ready and willing for some hard work, and persevere.